The Truth Behind My One-Night Stand

  • Posted by on September 23rd, 2008

I was originally going to call this podcast, “Birds of a Penis Flock Together” — I will save that for another post. Because for me at this point in time it’s more relevant that I own up to yesterdays podcast… as you will hear it took me about seven recordings to feel comfortable with the one that I finally posted, but you know what I never really did, and this is why….

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  • Marc

    Don’t be too down about it, at least it was good while you were in the moment. Sometimes you can’t anticipate how you will react to these things afterward & usually going with your instincts is good. Yes, you may have some regret, but if nothing else, take the good from the situation or the lesson learned & apply it to your life & move on. With a lot of us being so picky with whom we are intimate with and who we date, sometimes we just really long for some passion when we have been without for a while. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s in our nature. Alternatively, you could always buy some toys, lol. My friend’s girlfriend throws passion parties & sells all sorts of goodies :p

    Oh, and are those your legs? Hubba hubba ;)

    -Marc

  • Marc

    Don’t be too down about it, at least it was good while you were in the moment. Sometimes you can’t anticipate how you will react to these things afterward & usually going with your instincts is good. Yes, you may have some regret, but if nothing else, take the good from the situation or the lesson learned & apply it to your life & move on. With a lot of us being so picky with whom we are intimate with and who we date, sometimes we just really long for some passion when we have been without for a while. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s in our nature. Alternatively, you could always buy some toys, lol. My friend’s girlfriend throws passion parties & sells all sorts of goodies :p

    Oh, and are those your legs? Hubba hubba ;)

    -Marc

  • Jennifer

    Yes, good for the moment but would have nice to have had some kind of text, something… just to be treated like a “person” I almost feel like I should have been paid! I did need a good romp in the hay — but feeling “used” makes me want to seal my vagina shut… I have never been drawn to use toys — but maybe it’s a “safer” option when and if I don’t seal my vagina shut.. and yes those are my legs……. :)

  • Marc

    Yes, I think the guy is a dumb ass. I guess the reason I haven’t had many one nighters is because I typically call the next day unless the girl was just horrible or had something that really turned me off to her. First of all, why wouldn’t you stay in contact with someone you had good sex with? Either they are cheating & in a relationship or they just suck as a person. I’m sure there are some other reasons, but those two come to mind as a couple of main reasons……honestly, back when I was out & hooking up on a regular basis, if I hooked up with someone good, I always went back for more….and usually we went out, dated, & had fun. Just meeting up for sex is ok & all, but it’s much better to end a great night out on the town with someone or during a nice weekend get away, you don’t have to be in love or even looking for love to be a good person, have fun & enjoy great sex without commitment. I guess people are too busy with all the other distractions the modern world is throwing at us….like writing blogs ;)

  • Marc

    Yes, I think the guy is a dumb ass. I guess the reason I haven’t had many one nighters is because I typically call the next day unless the girl was just horrible or had something that really turned me off to her. First of all, why wouldn’t you stay in contact with someone you had good sex with? Either they are cheating & in a relationship or they just suck as a person. I’m sure there are some other reasons, but those two come to mind as a couple of main reasons……honestly, back when I was out & hooking up on a regular basis, if I hooked up with someone good, I always went back for more….and usually we went out, dated, & had fun. Just meeting up for sex is ok & all, but it’s much better to end a great night out on the town with someone or during a nice weekend get away, you don’t have to be in love or even looking for love to be a good person, have fun & enjoy great sex without commitment. I guess people are too busy with all the other distractions the modern world is throwing at us….like writing blogs ;)

  • Marc72

    Wonder why this ‘gravatar’ avatar thing isn’t working, i’ll try the handle I signed up with them…..this is just a test post, lol.

  • Marc72

    Wonder why this ‘gravatar’ avatar thing isn’t working, i’ll try the handle I signed up with them…..this is just a test post, lol.

  • Jennifer

    I happen to think that he may just suck as a person? It’s hard to know we had what seemed like a good time, but I will say that even if he did not want to ever see me again, I would have rather had him point blank tell me rather than making me feel like a used call girl, I think a person that treats someone like he did me needs to check in on their soul… and in the end if that’s the type of “man” he is then good riddance, you know?
    Yes, life is so full of distractions — such as writing blogs and being the CEO of a social dating website ! :)

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